Thanksgiving Traditions Full of Flavor, Family, and Southern Charm
Thanksgiving has always been more than a holiday in our family; it’s a collection of traditions, flavors, and moments that come together to create something beautiful—something that feels like home.
Growing up, Thanksgiving mornings would always start with the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. No one really sat down to watch it, but we’d catch glimpses of the massive floats and colorful characters as we moved through the house or passed by from playing football outside. The crunch of leaves underfoot is forever tied to Thanksgiving in my mind. Being in the South, our holiday weather was often warm, which meant that the kitchen was a hot, bustling space. Yet somehow, that just made it feel all the more like Thanksgiving as we crowded together in the heat.
One of our unique traditions was cooking the turkey in a smoker. Every year, it was an art trying to time the turkey with all the sides, and somehow it never lined up perfectly. My dad would start complaining if the weather was cold, claiming that it made the turkey take forever to cook. Then there was the great debate about the turkey’s “red button”—you know, the little pop-up timer. My dad would swear the turkey was done before that button ever popped up, and my brother and I would try to convince him to wait. Still, he’d often pull the turkey out, saying the button was broken, and every time we’d end up microwaving slices because, of course, it wasn’t quite done. But honestly, it wouldn’t be Thanksgiving without that little tradition.
Somehow, these small mishaps and arguments over the turkey are what make the day feel complete. There’s always a moment when my parents get into a little spat over some tiny thing, and my siblings and I try to lighten the mood, sharing quiet jokes to ease the tension. But just like that, they’re back to laughing, as if nothing ever happened. It’s these little quirks that give Thanksgiving its charm.
Our Thanksgiving table is always filled with dishes steeped in tradition. My mom’s sweet potato casserole—with a pecan topping, never marshmallows—is a recipe passed down from my grandmother, and it wouldn’t be Thanksgiving without it. Another essential is the green bean casserole, made faithfully from the recipe on the back of the French’s fried onion can. And then there’s my dad’s contribution: Cabbage Salad. This simple mix of shredded cabbage, pineapple, mayonnaise, and marshmallows has a history all of its own. It was his mother’s recipe, a piece of his family tradition brought to life each Thanksgiving. As a kid, I couldn’t stand salad and always felt a bit guilty about not liking something my dad made with so much love. Now, even though it’s still not my favorite, the salad has become special to me. It’s a way of including my dad’s mom in our meal, even though she passed away before I was born. Preparing it is like inviting her spirit to join us at the table—a reminder that family, past and present, is woven into our traditions.
Now as an adult, for my part, I’ve taken on the role of making the cornbread dressing. Your dressing in the south has to be made out of cornbread and don’t even consider calling it stuffing. Preparing it each year has become one of my own Thanksgiving traditions, something I look forward to as part of my place in our family’s Thanksgiving story. And of course, we have to mention the cranberry sauce—always straight from the can and, without fail, always forgotten in the fridge until someone remembers it right after we’ve all finished eating. It’s one of those traditions we never change, even if no one really misses it!
Our dessert table is a tribute to my grandmother, whose pecan pie recipe remains a staple, though none of us can quite make it as she did. We add in pecan sandies (or wedding cookies) and a pumpkin pie, along with a few extra treats to keep everyone’s sweet tooth happy.
We usually end the day outdoors, either back in the leaves, playing football, or taking turns at a game of badminton while the kids and dogs run around, enjoying the last light of the day. There’s something so timeless about that scene, the air filled with laughter, the colors of autumn all around us.Thanksgiving in our family isn’t perfect, but it’s perfectly ours. It’s a day filled with love, quirks, a little bit of chaos, and so much gratitude. And that’s exactly how I’d want it to stay.
Earth Day: A Guide to Sustainable Home Buying
Earth Day. It serves as a reminder of our responsibility to protect and preserve the environment for future generations. One area where our actions can make a significant impact is in the realm of real estate. By making thoughtful choices when buying a home, we can align our housing decisions with the principles of sustainability and environmental stewardship. In this blog post, we’ll explore how you can celebrate Earth Day through real estate by incorporating eco-friendly practices into your home buying journey.
Embrace Green Features:
When searching for your dream home, prioritize properties that have eco-friendly features such as energy-efficient appliances, solar panels, and sustainable building materials. These features not only reduce your carbon footprint but also contribute to long-term cost savings through lower utility bills. By investing in a home with green amenities, you’re not just buying a house – you’re investing in a more sustainable future.
Consider Location:
The location of your future home plays a crucial role in its environmental impact. Opt for neighborhoods with easy access to public transportation, reducing the need for individual car usage and promoting sustainable commuting options. Additionally, look for properties situated near green spaces or nature reserves, allowing you to immerse yourself in the beauty of the natural world right outside your doorstep.
Cultivate Sustainable Outdoor Spaces:
Transform your outdoor areas into havens of sustainability by incorporating eco-friendly landscaping practices. Choose native plants that require less water and maintenance, reducing the need for chemical fertilizers and pesticides. Implement rainwater harvesting systems and composting bins to minimize waste and nourish your garden naturally. By nurturing a sustainable outdoor space, you’re not only enhancing the beauty of your property but also contributing positively to the local ecosystem.
Prioritize Energy Efficiency:
Evaluate the energy efficiency of potential homes by looking for features such as double-pane windows, proper insulation, and programmable thermostats. These elements help reduce energy consumption and lower utility costs while creating a more comfortable living environment. Additionally, consider implementing energy-saving practices within the home, such as turning off lights when not in use and unplugging electronic devices to minimize phantom energy usage.
Engage with Sustainable Communities:
Research the communities where you’re considering buying a home and inquire about any sustainability initiatives or green programs in place. Choose neighborhoods that prioritize environmental stewardship and offer opportunities for community engagement in sustainability efforts. By becoming part of a sustainable community, you can amplify your impact and contribute to collective efforts towards a greener, more sustainable future.
As we celebrate Earth Day, let us remember that our housing choices have the power to shape the world we live in. By integrating eco-friendly practices into our home buying journey, we can make a positive impact on the environment while enjoying the benefits of sustainable living. Whether it’s embracing green features, prioritizing energy efficiency, or cultivating sustainable outdoor spaces, every choice we make brings us one step closer to a more sustainable future for all. So let’s celebrate Earth Day through real estate and pave the way towards a brighter, greener tomorrow.